Diversity & The League of Ordinary Gentlemen
Responding to BlaiseP’s post on Ta-Nehisi Coates’s recent Atlantic cover story, Somni451 raised a question about the League’s diversity:
This post reminded me a question I’ve been meaning to ask for a while. What is the composition of the bloggers here? All guys, we know that, not all-white, because of Mr Murali, but is there any non-white Americans in the bunch?
The subject of diversity is a particularly tricky one for for me. For one thing, I have noticed that people both define and experience “diversity” in different ways. For example, in the same comment where he calls for greater diversity at the League, Somni criticizes the League for having given Tom Van Dyke, a conservative, the ability to post his opinions here. Perhaps more ironically, the one person Somni recognizes above as being a symbol of diversity – Murali – is the same person he often rails that we should excommunicate, because Murali’s beliefs are different from his own. Because of this, it feels easy to dismiss this call for diversity; it’s as if by having lacked even the illusion of respecting diversity of thought, Somni gives us permission to ignore the question of other types of diversity as well.
And yet…
And yet I must confess that I find some value in his criticism. That this site welcomes any and all viewpoints is hands down it’s biggest strength. But there is a difference between welcoming all viewpoints, and having all viewpoints show up to be heard. And to the extent that we discuss such a broad variety of topics, I find I do wish the choir to be bigger when I notice that certain voices are missing. As BSK noted, “[t]here are certain perspectives that are garnered from life experiences and life experiences informed by gender or race or sexual orientation or religion (and others) can’t always be replicated.” In this he is exactly right.
When I think back on the commentary we have had on issues of diversity, I must say that the ones I am most proud to be associated with are those that involved gay rights. This makes sense; if there is one “minority” group that is firmly enveloped in our family, it’s the gays. Not only do we have gay readers, commenters, and contributors, many of them are married and raising children. Having their voice’s fully engaged in those conversations about things such as gay marriage does a great service to all of us. It gives those of us who are straight a necessary perspective, and it underlines the truth that these are not just abstract issues to be dealt with in the vacuum of theory.
Conversations coming from posts on Muslim rights, on the other hand, are considerably weaker. For one thing, there seems to be an entire subspecies of internet troll that lives to Google people saying neutral or positive things about Muslims; any posts that even mention the word “Muslim” seem to be overrun by drive-by Muslim bashers. We either have no Muslims to throw in their own two cents in these conversations, or we have Muslim readers/commenters who (understandably, I think) choose not to get mixed up in the vitriol. And because of this, we miss a very important voice at the table. It’s one thing to argue with Liberal White Guy about what Muslims believe. It’s quite another to have a Muslim of faith tell you, “No, I don’t believe that. I believe this.”
In the past when we’ve discussed our lack of diversity, it has almost always been through the lens of gender. And this of course makes sense. I feel like I have a pretty good idea how many of us are or aren’t are women, because the very nature of gender specific names makes it obvious that Michelle, Kim, Katherine and Rose are probably not dudes. But I truly have no idea how many of our contributors or regular commenters are people of color. And the truth of it is I rarely even bother to wonder. It never even occurs to me as “important” to ask if Elias is black or white. But of course it wouldn’t occur to me; this is the luxury of belonging to the majority.
And yet…
A quest for diversity of one kind can also be a trap against diversity of another kind if you’re not careful. In response to a post by JL on the same TNC article, Somni quotes a challenge by ex-Leaguer Freddie:
“I suspect that a substantial minority of Coates’s considerable following is made up of people who do not, actually, think highly of him, though they suppose they do. I suspect that he attracts admiring white people who experience discussion of race as a kind of panic. I suspect that he fulfills for them the role of a racial avatar, someone to hold opinions on race for them, so that they neither have to engage in the hard work of fixing our racial inequalities nor feel indicted by his own observations on race in America. I suspect that for them Coates is not fully human, that he is another in a parade of black symbols who assuage their guilt and massage their egos, that he is a stock character, a prop, but never a human being to be evaluated and thus capable of being truly valued…
I wonder about Coates. When he reads this endless commentary from white people trying to outdo each other in praising him, as the reach deeper and deeper for hyperbole, as they stretch their vocabularies to bless him with their benevolent white approval– does he get embarrassed, at all? Does it become unseemly to him? Does he question where this all comes from? I imagine he must. Something is off, here. No one needs to have any sympathy for my convictions to say so. I find no value in universal assent, and beyond the poor optics of a bunch of people agreeing, I fear that it’s exactly in those times– in the deadening warmth of proud unanimity– that something corrosive slips in the back door.”
This strikes me as a prime example of the way that the impulse for diversity can lead to the stifling of it. As I said in the comment section about Freddie’s point,
[I]t hints at a kind of, “if you weren’t a racist white person you’d agree with me” kind of vibe that I find grating. This notion that you can’t hold a combination of being white, liking Coates and disagreeing with Freddie without there being some nefarious, race-related ulterior back-story lacks the empathy I usually like about FdB.
Despite this, however, it is hard for me not to notice the irony of a group of young white men arguing whether TNC’s view of slavery and the Civil War does or doesn’t fall into the rubric of the proper black American experience.
Assuming that such diversity is good for the League, how does one go about achieving it? BSK and Somni both call for a census and cataloguing of the race, gender and creed of all who participate at the League. And while I have to confess I would be most curious to see such data, I am loathe to send any kind of message to those that come here that I need to know if they’re white or not. This idea makes me really uncomfortable. I love the idea of someone saying, in response to a post, “Well, I’m an African American (or whatever), and I think because of this I see this issue as X.” The idea of Erik, Mark, myself, or any front pager saying to someone who takes the time to contribute, “Hold on – what color are you?” Not so much.
So I throw the question out to to the hive mind: Assuming that different viewpoints are good for the League, how do we best go about fostering that? Do we simply have an open dialogue, and see who shows up? Do we “signal” by actively inviting guest posts from non-Leaguers that might broaden horizons? Or do we do exactly what Somni asks us not to do – attempt to engage with people like TNC on our own, as BlaiseP and JL did, and welcome those that such discussions brings with open arms, hearts and minds?
I myself lean toward the latter, but I am curious to hear what everyone else here thinks.
You know how I said a awhile back that I write less these days in part because you write a lot of what I otherwise would have, except better? This is a good example.Report
Well then, I wish you’d start writing faster so I could get more s**t at home done.
(Als, thanks.)Report
Well, I’m working on adding a lady contributor over at my own little corner as fast as I can, so there’s that.
One of the nice things about good ideas is that their intrinsic quality is utterly independent of the attributes of those expressing them. A good idea or sound argument is neither enhanced nor degraded by the gender, creed, race, ethnicity, etc of the person expressing it. (The obvious exception being sexual orientation. Gays give everything they say just a little extra panache, n’est-ce pas?) I come to the League because I think the quality of the ideas expressed (even when I disagree with them) is markedly higher than just about anywhere else on the Internet, and certainly the quality of the commentary often is. So since the quality of the ideas speaks for itself, I don’t know what value is added by aggressively pursuing diversity for its own sake.
Now, one could argue that more diversity might bring more good ideas into the discussion. That ethnic, religious, racial minorities have experiences and ideas that might otherwise not occur to those of us in the majority. I suspect that that’s true. But the LoOG has a very clear and welcoming policy with regard to guest posts. Anyone who has a good idea is welcome to submit it so everyone else can enjoy it. Those who do so with particular frequency often get to join the masthead if they’re so inclined. To me, that seems a sufficient policy.
PS> I found Freddie’s comment a bit distasteful. I like TNC because he writes so beautifully. I’m not a member of his commenting community (largely because I spend so much time here), but if I were, it wouldn’t be because I need a proxy for my racial opinions or reasoning. It would be because the man can write. And anyone who reads his posts on a prodigal number of topics has a clear picture of him as a fully realized human being, thanks all the same.Report
Glad you reminded me.Report
And there she is! Yay!Report
” I like TNC because he writes so beautifully. I’m not a member of his commenting community (largely because I spend so much time here), but if I were, it wouldn’t be because I need a proxy for my racial opinions or reasoning. It would be because the man can write. ”
Russell, this is how I feel as well. The ability to write is something that’s undervalued in our age, and TNC really has it (Freddie, of all people, should appreciate). Ta’s digs was the main place where I hung out before I discovered the League, and it had more to do with how Ta wrote than what he wrote. His profile of Bill Cosby I remember reading in a Japanese book store before I even knew what the blogosphere was. I sat down, started reading it, and didn’t look up until I was finished. I searched for the writer on the Internet that night, and that’s how I discovered the blogosphere.Report
I dunno. Maybe I should try to like his writing a bit less? Because I’m white?Report
On one level, the great thing that the internet provides is the whole “On the internet, nobody knows you’re a dog” phenomenon. You are nothing more than the words/sentences/paragraphs you write. I’ve heard it said, however, that you can tell whether a sentence was written by a male or by a female (visit here for the Gender Analyzer website!).
Which makes me wonder if there is a particular language used by people steeped in privilege vs. by those who are not (and, of course, you’d have to be able to tell in a discussion about something *OTHER* than privilege)… and if there is, then it’s likely that our webpage is swimming in that language in the same way that the gender analyzer guessed that we are male.
Which brings me to the question of whether this is the result of us “othering” people who want to show up and comment or if it’s something as simple as the dynamic that existed in the lunch room when I went to college: the white people all sat together, the African-American people all sat together, and the Asian people all sat together. If it’s the latter, I don’t know that there’s *ANYTHING* that can be done to change that. If it’s the former?Report
Is it possible, though, to tell whether a sentence was written by a white man pretending to be an Egyptian lesbian?Report
Well playedReport
Just had to do it JB, posting your comment gets the following:
We guess https://ordinary-times.com/blog/2012/01/16/diversity-the-league-of-ordinary-gentlemen/#comment-226993 is written by a man (51%), however it’s quite gender neutral.
Congrats, your posting is quite gender neutral. I’m afraid to submit my own. 😉Report
My blog itself gets 54%. The front page of the League? 66% (at least those were the numbers when I checked earlier).Report
LOL, gave the gender site a couple of my guest posts here. The tempore one got a 68% male, which I figured was about right for me. The vertias wine post got 58% female.
So clearly the more I drink, the more I write like a woman.Report
Three of mine, chosen at random, score 51%, 50%, 51%.
I am the eunuch of blogging.Report
I am the eunuch of blogging.
I can’t stop laughing at this.Report
“the eunuch of blogging”
LMFAO. You’ve made my day.Report
I just got 70% male for https://ordinary-times.com/blog/author/christophercarr/Report
I don’t think that works like that. https://ordinary-times.com/blog/2012/01/16/diversity-the-league-of-ordinary-gentlemen/#comment-226993 and https://ordinary-times.com/blog/2012/01/16/diversity-the-league-of-ordinary-gentlemen/ are the same web page, the first just has a # that tells your web browser to scroll to a specific part of the page which has been marked in the HTML with that code. (It’s called an anchor tag, for those who want to look it up.)
So I suspect it’s this entire page, all comments includes, that is ‘51% male’. (Or rather, was at the time.) I don’t see anyway to paste just one comment in and see the result.Report
To your last point, Beverly Tatum has a book on that very subject, called, “Why Are All the Black Kids Sitting Together in the Cafeteria”. In it, she explores the need for “affinity groups” and the importance of people having spaces where they can engage in people who are “like them”. These need not be formal groups and need never explicitly talk about whatever it is that makes the members of the group alike and still provide value.
The question is, is the LoOG the white table in the cafeteria? If so, do we want it to be (which is okay if that is the case, but we ought to own that decision)? If not, how do we signal that despite appearing like the white table, we are not?Report
I think we are all overlooking the very real possibility that we are in fact the Nerd Table, and the kids in the other cliques aren’t really chomping at the bit to eat with us.Report
FIFY.Report
nice catchReport
We’ll need some more threads about football in the weeks ahead if we’re to avoid the inevitable swirlies, table toppings, and wet willies.Report
There is no Tebow.
What would be the point?Report
Having affinity groups is great! I love sitting at other people’s tables, though! Dropping by a Latina blog, a faith-based blog (StreetProphets is great, very inclusive), a black blog or two, a hillbilly chemist blog. I get around, or at least I used to.
It’s perspectives, bright and clear and shiny!Report
Street Prophets is one of the few places I’ve ever been banned from.
I’m not sorry for it either.
Being around that group made me realize how “progressive” I’m really not.
And I mention it because the first big rift, of all things, was about race; specifically, there were quite a number (ie, practically everyone else) who was willing to disregard equitable representation for minorities solely for the basis of advancing a policy agenda, in this case abortion.
Or, I suppose you could say that opposing all restrictions to abortion is more of a sacred cow to that crew than equitable representation for racial minorities.
Odd how that pans out.
There was some rabbi that posted there that I really liked though.
Can’t remember his name.
I’ve never really known any Jews before.Report
After observing that split while still in high school, I deliberately sat at random tables for a couple weeks. Reaction by folks I didn’t know wasn’t openly hostile (nobody said “fish you doin’ here, yo?”), but the tension and confusion was quite thick.
I find relations became much easier in my life once alcohol got involved. The type of person that’s still picky about who they talk to while drunk tends to either drink by themselves or do things in public while drunk that drive others away.Report
Jay,
Yeah, I heard that one about analyzing gender. Problem is, most people tend to think I’m a teenage boy. I think it’s my obstreperous nature.
I sat with everyone at the lunchroom, sooner or later (got bored easily, ADD anyone?) Most of the black kids were pretty nice. The Asian kids often were speaking in another language, so they weren’t terribly fun to talk to [I once pointed out that I would kinda like to understand what they were saying — only to be informed that there were multiple languages at the table, and most people didn’t know what they were talking about!]Report
I never called for a policy of non-engagement, but isn’t it obvious that there’s a difference between how JL Wall engaged TNC on the issue and the way BlaiseP did? I suspect BlaiseP’s method of engagement will not bring “open arms, hearts and minds”. It’s not about who you engage or whether it’s your place to engage, it’s how you do it.
This is really unfair to BSK, and somewhat unfair to me. My point was about the front-pagers, not the commenters and visitors. Who the commenters and visitors are is of course outside the power of the League to determine, but that’s not the case about the frontpagers. People don’t suddenly become frontpagers by magic, there is a selection process going on, and what factors the League considers when doing that selection says something about the priorities and values of the blog.
I take your point about Tom van Dyke and Murali,obviously I have issues of my own, but then again, I’m not running a semi-popular blog on the internet, so my issues are my own, and don’t reflect on anyone else. I believe a group blog has a bigger responsibility.Report
I think I see your point about Blaise and JL, and find that I both agree and disagree with it. That JL’s post led to a (very nice!) response from TNC and Blaise’s has not (at least yet) is probably not coincidental. But, to touch on the TVD/Murali point, I am not a big believer in saying only X opinion can be stated.
Regarding the census, I obviously did misunderstand if everyone had meant only the front pagers. For what it’s worth, I don’t know that there is much of a selection process. I think anyone is invited to guest post, and anyone that has done so and enjoyed it and goes so far as to ask to join the team has been welcomed on board. And I think that has served this group well. So the trick to my mind isn’t shouldn’t Erik be combing the internet for, say, black people, but rather how do we make a larger and more diverse group of smart people with something to say know that we exist and decide they have a place here if they want it?Report
I think anyone is invited to guest post, and anyone that has done so and enjoyed it and goes so far as to ask to join the team has been welcomed on board.
This. I myself try to prod people who sound interesting to submit a guest post. Most people don’t submit guest posts.
If there’s a self-selection bias, it’s toward people who are willing to haul their butt in front of the keyboard and start topics of discussion. I feel like my wheelhouse is keeping them going, personally (you can compare the frequency of my posts to the other contributors to see that I’m a bursty “start conversations” sort of guy), but all you really have to do to join the League is comment intelligently, submit a decent guest post or two, and then show up and chop the wood.Report
Wait, we can get people to chop wood for us, too?Report
I have a handy +5 axe with magical wood-chopping properties that I can bring. It also helps keep the forest trolls at a safe distance.Report
Ahem…
Dude, are you in for Vegas? Please say you’re in.Report
Can’t swing it this year, it pains me to say.Report
grumble grumble grumble…..Report
anyone that has done so and enjoyed it and goes so far as to ask to join the team has been welcomed on board.
Aha, so you admit that you discriminate against people who don’t enjoy writing for this site! I suspected it all along.Report
Are you kidding? We PREFER people who hate writing for this site. It’s just that with the new bleeding-heart labor laws, we’re not allowed to lock them up and withhold food till they write stuff anymore.
I tell you, we are becoming a nation of sissies.Report
Everything is what it is and not another thing.
You’re wondering how the League can become another thing, no?
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Whoops. That’s a reply to Tod, not sonmi.Report
No, I’m wondering how it can become more of what it already is.
There was a time when the likes of Dr. Saunders and Elias would have seemed odd here. But they appeared and prevailed because what makes the League great isn’t that it’s a Libertarian BLog, or a White Guy Blog, or anything else. It’s a blog that celebrates the meeting of minds with different viewpoint, backgrounds, and outlooks.
Having a member of our family who is – for example – an African American comment on Blaise’s post about TNC’s view on the black experience doesn’t alter the core of who we are; it underlines it.Report
The internet largely self-segregates itself. We did have Jamelle Bouie here for a while but he left around the same time as Freddie. Not because of race issues but because the blog then wasn’t great for liberal perspectives I think. But it still really isn’t great for a lot of progressive bloggers, truth be told. It’s not partisan enough.Report
Some folks strike me that they’d be happier if they didn’t have to deal with comment sections. Some folks strike me as folks that write in order to have to deal with comment sections.
I have many of the lefter folks who wrote for the site in the past categorized as the former rather than the latter.Report
This is an interesting observation.Report
But didn’t those folks go on to other blogs with comment sections?Report
Off the top of my head, the two that I’m thinking of moved on to a place where there is precious *LITTLE* movement in the comments (TAP) (and I’m trying to find the instance where he complained about MattY’s comment section after having guest blogged there) and the other regularly turns comments off for his posts.Report
It’s not partisan enough.
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Hmmm. . . I guess that’s what I like about the comments section here–that it’s not particularly partisan. Too much of political discussion on the Web is of the echo-chamber variety, where you can safely predict the kind of comments you’ll see.Report
Well, I agree that tone matters as well as content. I can see Mr. Coates reading both JLWall and BlaiseP and determining that he could have engaged with JLWall but not BlaiseP, based on tone alone.
To reach the original issue of how and why frontpagers achieved that status, Erik explained it quite nicely below. The point about adversarial comments potentially disattracting those sorts of people who are adverse to adversarial confrontation is interesting and vexing to me; in my line of work I encounter people of all sorts who engage in adversarial process — but then again, my line of work is self-selecting for those who enjoy or at least can tolerate adversarial process so it’s very filtered.
This is vexing because it could it be that we have a cultural bias that white men enjoy participating in adversarial exchanges to a larger degree than other kinds of people (if you filter out those people who didn’t choose to go to law school). If so, the lack of other-than-majority commenters emerging from the process Erik describes would then be the result of this cultural bias. I’m agnostic about this in the culture — and can never be certain, because I am in the group that would be given license to be adversarial if that cultural model turns out to be accurate, so I would never perceive any barrier to particpate in an adversarial exchange because there is no barrier to my participation.Report
Huh… Well, that’s an interesting mental road to go down Burt. I have to think about whether or not I think there’s any “there” there. But it is a thought worth pondering.Report
Could you invite Mr Coates himself to do a guest post? That might have the effect of advertising the League’s existence to a different audience and draw in more diverse commentors and potential bloggers.
Since it seems oddly relevant I am 75% white European and 25% Vietnamese but I think being raised a middle class English liberal contributed a lot more to my views than the details of my ancestry.
Also kind of relevant http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Internet_dog.jpgReport
Man, if I thought we could get him to do one I’d leap at that in a heartbeat. I agree with Russell; I think TNC is just about the finitest writer out in the blogosphere.Report
“finitist”Report
He’s a master of compression?Report
He is a very, very small man. Two inches tall, I believe. Who write in haiku.
This was in no way a bad and embarrassing misspelling.Report
“Brevity is… wit.”Report
Dude, you’re just going to attracting the same audience with pics of chicks.Report
I almost went with one of those cheesy generic corporate pictures of people of attractive people of different gender and ethnic background smiling at each other at a big conference table… but I was afraid the joke would be lost on people.Report
I think that would have been hilarious.Report
For the record, that would have been awesome. And not lost on me.Report
Don’t forget that there’s exactly one person in a wheelchair.Report
Yes sir, right next to the one latino female!Report
Or you could have just put up an image of the Extreme Ghostbusters.Report
Crap! That was a missed opportunity.Report
Yes, in a word. Here’s a small story.
For a long time we worried quite a bit about diversity. We worried about ideological diversity. We tried, and failed, to recruit girls. I even suggested that we could change the name of the site if we brought some girls on board. None of it really worked. Attempts to bring diversity to the League also helped to bring the wrong people on board as writers who didn’t feel at home here for various reasons or who clashed with the commentariat.
And so Mark and I decided to work in the sub-blogs and work out trial posting periods for people, and then it just sort of organically grew into essentially only bringing on people who were already members of the community. Commenters and especially those who submitted guest posts began writing here. Much to my delight, it’s been quite natural and lovely to see the site evolve in this manner. It’s a marvelous success.
Forced diversity is no answer. I do hope that more of our female readers and commenters will send me guest posts and maybe become front-pagers. I do hope that more people who aren’t as white as me come and read and comment and write, though I have no idea how many people of color already do. A gravatar is a lousy substitute for a real face, but there it is.
No, I think we let this thing continue to grow and evolve as it has been and if there is a League of Greater Diversity in its future, wonderful. If someone can convince more lady-bloggers and others to post here, wonderful. A TNC guest post would be lovely. I’ve offered several bloggers of the female persuasion a guest posting spot and so far have been politely rebuffed. Such is the internet, I suppose.Report
Yeah, this seems right.Report
Did you ask them why they refused? Have you considered the possibility that there might be other reasons why you were rebuffed (maybe related to the nature of this blog itself) rather than just because of the fickleness of the Internet?Report
In previous posts where women have been asked in the comments section, those that have replied (if I remember correctly) generally note the adversarial tone of the conversations that follow posts. Which is not to say “That’s why women say no;” just that’s why those few I’ve seen asked have said no thank you.Report
sonmi451 – there have been a variety of reasons.Report
Is Sonmi male? I figured based on the monicker and some posts that sonmi was female….
Anyway on the original subject.
I’ve considered doing guest posts here, and I sort of wish we had more international diversity, too. I applaud Murali’s efforts for that reason, though I often disagree with the contents.
I do think there are times when the commentariat can be a bit adversarial, but that’s par for the course.
I do find it more cheerful now than at one point, though.
Also, Freddie’s “If only you cared enough you’d see things the way I do” shtick is beyond old.Report
“Is Sonmi male? I figured based on the monicker and some posts that sonmi was female….”
Huh…
I had just wondered if Somni was the actual electronica/ambiance artist, or just a big fan.Report
I was thinking more of An Orison of Somni-451 from Cloud Atlas. Especially based on the comments that are generally critical of rightward thinking.Report
Hey, a David Mitchell’s fan!Report
Damn it! And here I thought I was the edgy cool one with his thumb on the pulse of Hip American Minutia with my electronica/ambience reference.
Sigh.
I hate growing old.Report
Inviting people to weigh in smacks of tokenism. It doesn’t have to, probably. I suppose you could just randomly ask people you read and admire and associate with to weigh in on certain issues. But that group is probably not all that diverse, either. So it would always come down to, “So… why are you asking me again? Because I am [Insert monority group]?”
Which raises the related question: Is there anything wrong with tokenism? Is it wrong for a group of largely similar people to seek out a different voice specifically because the voice is different? I guess it could be. I mean, if you are writing about which fast food place has the best fries and actively seek out the “gay” or “black” take on that issue, it seems frivolous, like some kind of stunt. But if you are a bunch of white guys having a debate about why there are no good delis in DC, it might actually make sense to ask someone who is Jewish.
Having a bunch of white guys who are writing about terrorism reach out to a Muslim guy would appear to make sense. Etc. But I think you need to be midful of how you do it.
In the meantime, can someone talk a little bit about the whole, “it’s a luxury” formulation.I see Coates use it from time to time. Most recently, he said he could never vote for someone who is pro-life because it’s a luxury he can’t afford.
A luxury? In this post, how is not thinking it’s important to ask if people are minorities a “luxury”?Report
JL Wall is Jewish.
I’ve asked Muslims to weigh in before as well.
I’ve asked female bloggers to weigh in on feminist issues, but I’ve also just asked female bloggers who I think are good bloggers for no particular reason.Report
I wasn’t trying to suggest that implied that. I just think that if there’s a policy in place to “reach out” to get “other perspectives,” you have to be careful not to fall into that trap. In the case of Coates… forget it. He’s a guy that has written a lot about the Civil War. In fact, I think he’s the go-to guy for that issue at this exact moment. You’d want his perspective no matter the forum.
Again, I’d just be cautious about any sort of broad policy, which could descend into caricature pretty quickly.Report
I agree. This is why I like the idea of having someone like JL engage someone like TNC, with the hopes that folks that follow him might feel compelled to join in the conversation.
This to me seems the surest way to add quality voices without losing who we are.Report
I’ve seen BlaiseP’s post linked to and discussed by TNC’s commenters in an Open Thread, but not JL Wall’s. Just my two cent, but I’m guessing that’s not really going to encourage the folks that follow TNC to “join in the conversation”. I’d link to JL Wall’s post myself there, but I’m too lazy to get a Disqus account. Maybe somebody here with a Disqus account can do it, so people there won’t get the impression that BlaiseP’s post is somehow or representative of this blog. Or not. I don’t even know why I care, up to you guys.Report
I don’t know if you recall this, but TNC and JL had a number of exchanges on this topic a few months back. TNC didn’t respond to JL’s latest, but it’s safe to say that JL’s other posts on this subject have been linked over there far more frequently and in a far higher-profile than Blaise’s.Report
I might do that. I confess I was somewhat disturbed last night to see what I thought (and I am very much hoping I am reading it wrong) Blaise insinuate that TNC does not actually read any of the scholarly or source material he says he does. If that’s what folks at the Atlantic are coming over and seeing, then I have to agree – there will either be no conversation at all, or whatever takes place won’t really be worth having.
Thanks for the catch, Sonmi.Report
Oooh! While you’re over there, point out this one!Report
Maybe we should just send them a copy of Project Rufus when it’s done.Report
To be clear I suggested inviting Mr Coates as the one whose article sparked this debate and someone who clearly has interesting things to say on race issues. I did not mean to suggest him as a token black.Report
Oh, I hadn’t thought your idea was tokenism in any way. Having TNC dish at the League wouldn’t be tokenism, it would be a bloody honor.Report
I think you may have misunderstood my use of the word “luxury;” it sounds like in part because it’s a word TNC uses as well. This is how I meant it:
One of the advantages of being a member of the majority in society is that it is easier to take the equality you perceive as granted. Being a white guy from Portland, race doesn’t usually show up on my radar screen unless something forces it there. But if I had grown up as a white guy in a predominantly black city & country it’s hard to believe that the whole idea of race won’t color (ha!) a lot more of my perspective about a lot more things than it does now.
It is a luxury of being part of the majority that race does sit off in the background for me, is what I meant.Report
Interesting though that deliberate reaching out or inviting is only considered tokenism when we are talking about diversity of race/gender/religion/sexual orientation. When Freddie de Boer was the sole left-wing voice here, that was not considered tokenism. When John Cole reached out to ED Kain and invited him to Balloon Juice because he thought they needed a right-wing voice there after Cole’s conversion, that wasn’t considered tokenism either. I’m not saying that Freddie’s and ED’s case should be considered tokenism, I’m questioning the premise that if the blog deliberately reach out to women or people of color, that automatically makes it tokenism. It’s tokenism if you give job to someone who is not qualified to do it just because the person is a female/black/gay/whatever. Reaching out is making an effort, curious how our minds immediately go to tokenism in this discussion.Report
I think you might have missed to point of Sam’s comment, which was not that the act of engaging anyone of color is automatically tokenism, but saying that asking someone just because their of color might be tokenism… and then immediately walking that back.Report
Tokenism is, in part, defined by the idea of one representing for an entire group. If there was one African-American brought in to speak for “Black America”… that would be tokenism. If there was one African-American brought in to speak and speak as himself, which sometimes included speaking as an individual African-American, I see little problem.
As long as we aren’t saying, “Well, we’ve got the black angle covered because we brought in that one black guy,” odds are against (those not guaranteed) having created a ‘token’.Report
The bit about why people like Coates reminded me of this The Onion article.Report
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I’m in no mood to become a front pager, far from it. I’m seeing quite clearly the defined “haves and have-nots” attitude with the ridiculous “gravatar” bullshit that makes anyone not registered endure a loony picture next to their posts. It’s pathetically obvious that you don’t have to do this, as most of your sub-blogs use geometric shapes instead.
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Edited Note: Mike – if you want to complain about the Gravatars, go ahead. As to the personal attacks on others such as the one I just erased, you can try your luck writing such things on other threads – but not on mine.
Boy, you really don’t like ED’s choice of random pictures, do you?Report
Out of curiosity, is Mike alone or is this a thing? Does the “creature” default (as opposed to geo shapes or something else) make people commenting feel slighted?Report
I find it whimsical, personally. Prefer it to the geo shapes.Report
I’m not a huge fan of these default gravatars, but that was just a matter of taste. I never thought there was any derision implied.
Of course, everyone should probably just use an image of my dog. Don’t you freakin’ love her?Report
Actually, yes. Yes I do.Report
I disliked them enough to finally get my own darned one.
Posting at Mindless Diversions it didn’t bother me but on the rare occasions I’m trying to say something worth reading on the main site, it does.
I can embarrass myself through bad writing/typing/editing well enough.Report
I disliked them enough to finally get my own darned one.
Ah, see, that’s my evil plan.Report
Though using your daughter’s unbelievably cute picture does give you an unfair advantage in the online jousting process.
Damn that Plinko! I’m gonna rip him a new one, he’s gonna wish he’d never been… aw, who am I kidding? How can I stay mad at that face?Report
How do you I’m not really a 2-year old? I’m not sure how many of you realize it, but he parental bigotry of the front pagers at this place is staggering. I guess it’s par for the course in the blogosphere: kids should be seen and not heard on matters of philosophy, religion, sci-fi and booze.
(thanks, Tod)
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Look at the nightmare they saddled me with.Report
Whether you have your own personal gravatar or one of the defaults has nothing to do with your status on this site. It only has to do with whether you have an account set up with gravatar.com. Even my own gravatar comes from gravatar.com and not anything I’ve done with LoOG.Report
Will beat me to this. I had my own gravatar for years before becoming a front-pager at the League. It follows me all over the internet.Report
Yeah, but your’s is classic. You have a gravatar like that, you want it to follow you around the internet.Report
True dat. I wouldn’t think of ever giving up old Snidley.Report
It’s useful, too. This is the only way I knew you were Mike at the Big Stick, Mr. Dwyer.Report
I think that’s the first time I’ve seen someone believe that the Gravatar was specifically chosen by the site administrator.Report
As a black man, I’d have to say I honestly never even thought about this stuff regarding this site. Don’t really care. Sorry to disappoint anybody.
Though I tag my own site “random thoughts from a big angry negro”, I don’t usually talk directly about race because the way I see it, scratch a race issue and you’ll usually find a class issue underneath it.Report
Like. Or +1 or something.Report
I guess you’re not paying enough attention to the South Carolina primary. Turns out there is no class in America.
Who knew?Report
Perhaps the most sagacious comment I’ve read here in quite a while.Report
So when ya gonna do a guest post here psycho?Report
Funny you ask…
My site is actually Creative Commons licensed, so technically if something I posted there was seen as of interest for here (or anywhere, really), whoever makes that kind of call could provided they attribute it to me feel free to distribute it.Report
In case anyone was curious an example of what I mean by the class-under-race thing, here’s a recent one: Consider the strict immigration codes that some states put in. The one in Arizona that kicked it off turned out to be not just the thought of a state senator with white supremacist ties, but a collaboration between him & lobbyists for a “private” prison company, who openly said they expected to make money off of increased detention of immigrants.
Alabama did their version, and what turned their faces red about it? Enforcement to the letter of the law resulting in sweeping up rich foreigners.
To the extent their constituents hold racial resentment, the key fuel for many is fear on the part of working-class whites of being either pushed down or held down by competition. Meanwhile, look who is doing the hiring.
It’s the same kind of conflict that happened in the past with white union labor vs blacks that had been shut out at the time.Report
This seems entirely right.Report
Tod, I can’t speak for anybody else, but I have spent less than a nanosecond pondering the gravatar given to my replies here. And, before this reply gets posted, I can’t tell you what mine is.Report
Thx for this post, Tod. Really great.
For the record, I have posted on the frontpage exacly four times, the last time on January 1, in a little number called “The Stupid Party Strikes Again: The GOP and the VA primary’s “loyalty oath” .
I appreciate all the support in the comments here about my right to exist. The League should not be blamed for my bad writing. I was the best righty they could scrape up, and let’s face it, most of them are even worse.Report
And, really, how can anyone feel they’re taken less seriously over their gravatar after seeing TVD’s?Report
I have a friend that would be *perfect* for this site (the guy who brought Burt and I together), and a minority to boot, if only I could convince him to get back into blogging. But… he’s an Indian-American, and that only sometimes counts as a “real” minority. And his perspective, while incisive and interesting (we still trade emails since he gave up blogging) aren’t remarkably different than those around here (libertarian-minded, maybe liberaltarian). In the end, I expect it “wouldn’t count” for many.
The LoOG is what it is. Though the comment section can be adversarial, it’s less so than most places I go and it’s adversarial in a more constructive sense. If there are under-the-table things that make this less amenable to minorities and women (such as what Burt says above), that’s a shame because their perspective would be welcome, but I think caution is warranted when it comes to diversity for the same of diversity (this applies as much to ideological diversity as it does anything else).Report
Yeah, he would be good! Considering his current affiliation, I can understand why he hung up the blogger’s hat. That was the blogosphere’s loss and [generalized profession]’s gain.Report
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Interesting, though to people who REALLY cared about genuine diversity, his perspective sure as hell would count for something. If we had a “rainbow” (BARF!) of people here who all largely agreed on a given topic, we could more confidently say that that is a topic that is not, or only minimally, informed by race. When we have only or almost exclusively white guys here, it is hard to know if the consensus is a function of that being a truly preferable idea or simply being an idea preferable to white guys. One person of color wouldn’t be enough to confirm, but it would help. And, I’m sure there would be times where his opinion would differ and be directly related to his race.Report
I’ve commented from time to time, but find it’s not usually worth my while. When the front-page standard is “Liberals are ooky” (see the Huntsman article below) and the comments tend to be worse, I see no reason to cast my small pebble into the ocean of opinion here.
Plus, a lot of the articles fill me with searing hate, and that’s not the tone adopted here, so thanks, but I’d rather not.Report
I find this interesting. Conservatives seem to say almost the exact same thing, but from the other direction. I say this not to diminish your experience, but I do find it interesting.
And like you, I also keep try to keep away from the fray when I sense that I have nothing that isn’t negative to add.
However, FWIW, the comments you occasionally throw up on my posts always add something positive to the discussion.Report
You’re kind to say so, but the more general reaction I feel is more along the lines of “you occasionally throw up”. [Insert appropriate smiley here]Report
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And actually, more as a feedback thing, would you mind terribly if I asked what about my posts fills you with hate? I promise not to challenge; I’m more curious.
And of course, if you don’t really feel like saying that is entirely cool.Report
It’s not your articles that fill me with searing hate. In point of fact, even the “Commandments of Tod: was amusing, even if I disagreed with most of them. It’s the more Right-wing “Liberals are ooky” and “Barry [sic] has destroyed this country” (where were these clowns during 2000 to 2008?) types that make me want to scream, especially if the response is temperate and even positive.
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I would to have more of a cross-posting between this site and Slacktivist — where you can say anything you want as long as you’re willing to back it up. The commentariat there is a bit more … aggreessive, shall we say, but nowhere near Balloon Juice. I think it might do both blogs a bit of good. As with any blog, it’s best to lurk for a while, to get the feel of the place.Report
Dude. Do you really think that there is a lack of people on this site who were not sufficiently yelly about Dumbya from 2000-2008?
It’s like we represent a group of people for you and you’re yelling at them.
Which is all well and good for you as therapy, but try to look at it from our side.Report
Psst. No challenging.Report
“Do you really think that there is a lack of people on this site who were not sufficiently yelly about Dumbya from 2000-2008?”
I’d have to look at the archives, and I may not have been reading much before 2008, but my intial reaction is “Yes, there was such a lack.” Even today, no-one here seems all that upset about W.Report
Wow, I think you would get a majority opinion on “Dubya, terrible president”. You might even get a majority opinion on “Dubya, worst president ever”.Report
I would certainly agree with “W., worst president ever.” Absolutely. He should have been impeached. He turned the United States from a peaceful, prosperous, relatively free country into a belligerent, broke, all-but-police state.
But here’s the trouble. He’s just not making news anymore. There’s this new fellow, O., in the White House, and he’s mostly continuing or even modestly strengthening W.’s bad policies.
When I complain about O., people assume that I’m secretly pining away for W.
I’m certainly not. But they assume it anyway.Report
Mostly is an important word here. But yes.Report
The one thing I will agree with Jeff here is that there a lot of people on this site who wish for a Republican Party that never actually existed. Thus, the fluffing of Huntsman and such. It’s the same thing that pisses me off about Andrew Sullivan at times.
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Jesse – With presidential campaigns it’s far less about the party than the individual. On that front there are plenty of Republicans worth pointing to at all levels of government.Report
When it comes to individual Republican’s, I don’t see many at the Congressional level to be praiseful of. After all, even supposed “moderates” like Snowe vote 90% the same way as people like Cantor, Ryan, and DeMint.
So, yeah, I’m sure there’s a nice Republican city council member out there or something. Same as there was in 1968 or 1980. Doesn’t matter that the national party was aligned with idea of going as rightward as possible on the issues the American people would let them get away with (law ‘n’ order in the 60’s, welfare spending in the 80’s, and civil liberties and/or tax policy in the 00’s)Report
I was thinking more about how Presidents often transcend party. Even Obama has certainly not stuck to the agenda we would have expected in 2008.Report
Eh, maybe I’m just a far better Cassandra than others, but Obama hasn’t really surprised me. But then again, I never expected a President that agreed with me on much, especially when it came to foreign policy. Obama has moved the Overton window slightly to the left, passed some good bills, and made sure the GOP didn’t totally nuke things. That’s about what I expected, that’s what I’ve gotten.
Also, nothing Obama has done is out of the ‘mainstream’ of the Democratic Party. Now, it may be out of the mainstream of the Democratic Party as it exists on the Internet’s, but the guy still has an 80%~ approval rating among liberals. He hasn’t pulled an Eisenhower or even a George H.W. Bush when it comes to attacking his own party.Report
I don’t have the energy to research this, but does anyone have any idea of the overall racial make-up of American bloggers? I’ve always pictured it as a mostly white pursuit. I’m actually surprised it doesn’t have an entry here.Report
So I throw the question out to to the hive mind: Assuming that different viewpoints are good for the League, how do we best go about fostering that?
Oh, why does this question remind me of the long argument (I started) here about conservatives in academia?
Anyway, the problem with a site that doesn’t pay (like most of them) is that you have to entice people to voluntarily write for you. Perhaps you could do that by posting more on topics that are of interest to whatever group you’re looking to attract. Of course, a bunch of white guys writing about topics assumed to be of interest to other ethnic groups could be all sorts of ridiculous. Conversely, maybe you could start conversations with other posts on other blogs that are more diverse than this one, and hope it goes better than “mansplaining” to Tiger Beatdown went.
A funny story- my wife and her friends are all super intelligent and accomplished women, so when she and her friend Amber called from a dinner asking to know more about the site, my hopes rose that they’d want to write here. After looking at it for an hour, they called me back laughing hysterically: “Wow! You guys are a bunch of dorks!” They meant it kindly (I hope) but I did not get the feeling they wanted to be added to the roster.Report
Rufus, as in academia, scout up some Republican women and I’ll take this diversity business as sincere. Conservative women are the yeti of the blabosphere.Report
There’s that crazy woman with the muscle car that links to Rufus’s stuff.Report
Sounds like a prospect.Report
“Wow! You guys are a bunch of dorks!”
I’m pretty sure this is the response I’d get from most of my male friends and relations as well.Report
This is an interesting perspective, and one that turns the question of privilege on its head a bit, at least in my reading. That is, sure, great, maybe it WOULD be grand if some people who are not priviledged would drop some knowledge on us. And it’s nice to think that maybe they don’t because we are unwelcoming, or that we don’t reach out enough, or whatever. Either way, the assumption is some version of, “We have the power, and these other people do not feel welcome enough to share their ideas. How can we be more welcoming?”
But maybe such people, either individually or as a class, think we are idiots? Or not worth the time?
Like, if I have a party and there are no 24-year-old bikini models there, maybe the problem is that they are intimidated by my intellect, or they are afraid that they aren’t up to it, or their invitation got lost in the mail.
Or, maybe there are no 24-year-old bikini models there for other reasons that are less charitable to consider.Report
Wait… the bikini models are coming though. Right? Eventually?Report
Tom: So, I’m insincere now? Thanks. If you know how to “scout” bloggers, share that knowledge and I’m sure we’ll do it.
Tod: I think she was just trolling us because she thought Jaybird is too liberal to be a real man or something. It still hasn’t risen to the level of “interesting”, frankly.
Ken: I’ve had many friends say they think the site is cute but our interests are a bit too dorky for their tastes. I have no idea what they could mean by that!
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Who in the world are you two talking about?Report
Will: It’s really not interesting. You know how there are some trolls who will leave comments along the lines of “You all suck! Ha Ha! Stupids!” to get attention in the comment threads? Well, there are bloggers who do the same thing with links to get attention for their blogs. For the most part, they’re easier to ignore than thread trolls and about as intellectually engaging as teenagers who yell out of cars at pedestrians.Report
I didn’t question your sincerity, Rufus, but the premise of this whole inquiry. My apology if it came off any other way.
Find a Republican woman who’ll take the spitstorm that’ll come her way and I’ll testify at her mental competency hearing for the prosecution.Report
That was a great story.Report
And, of course, there’s nothing wrong with that.
This all sort of reminds me of an old article talking about one of the reasons for the gender disparity in IT is the geekitude of the guys. I don’t mean areas of geek misogyny, but relatively innocent stuff like Star Trek posters, coke cans, video game boxes, and so on. Now, it’s one thing to ask current IT folks not to have actually offensive things on the walls, or to crack down on offensive behavior, but it’s another to say that the entire culture of a place should be changed to make it more enticing to outside groups.
(Again, this applies as much to ideological diversity as it anything else.)Report
That was a great story.
Thanks! I probably should mention they were hanging out at our friend’s house getting tipsy on booze. It’s the only explanation for thinking the site is dorky really.
And, of course, there’s nothing wrong with that.
That’s what I said. I can’t imagine why anyone would think long conversations about Hobbes and fantasy novels are dorky though.
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On booze, you say? My stars!Report
Well I’m a half Canadian gay man who is married to an african american hawaiian and I own a Liza Minnelli lunchbox (it sits in the pride of my place on a shelf in the kitchen. Such artifacts are infinitely too precious to actually sully by filling with lunch).
Therefore I feel I have contributed my part to the League’s diversity. You’re welcome.Report
I think the Liza Minelli lunchbox alone should count as the equivalent of at least three minorities checked off.Report
You’re a very insightful and reasoned individual to think so Tod.Report
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I didn’t even know they made such lunch boxes.Report
to prove you really have that lunchbox you should make it your new avatar 😛Report
I’ll consider it Ward.Report
Tod-
Great piece. However, I feel I am misrepresented in this quote:
“BSK and Somni both call for a census and cataloguing of the race, gender and creed of all who participate at the League.”
I did not call for a census or cataloguing of any kind and, if it appeared so, I either misspoke or was misunderstood. I do think there is value in knowing who and what is represented within a group, but do not think the methods expressed following that statement are the appropriate way to do so. This is a particularly difficult thing to accomplish with the anonymity of the internet, but there are better ways. Anyway, I just want to make sure my position on the matter is clear.
You did make an interesting comment in discussing how an African-American commenter might lead off with that, particularly if his perspective is informed by his race. However, does a white commenter need to do the same? Or is it assumed that we are white unless we indicate otherwise? And, if so, what does that say about us/the LoOG?
I haven’t read the comments and will do so and decide on weighing in. I do alot of professional work on diversity (in schools) and hopefully can contribute here. But I just wanted to get that one point across first.Report
Yo BSK –
As to me misunderstanding you, so says Sonmi as well – you’ll note that I apologized for having done so, and I happily do it again here.
Your question about “does white guy identify;” and I think I would argue that we do (or at least I do) as appropriate. So, for example, if I wrote a post that I liked going to Borders back in the day and someone said, “I, as a whit man….” Yeah, that would look a little off. But so would starting off “I, as a blah man…”
I was referring to those contexts where one recognizes that those things that make them different give them different perspectives, and say so. So I would not mind it, frankly, if someone said to Blaise something along the lines of “Hey, look, I’m an African American, and because of that I see what you’re saying about slavery as being way off base.” I cannot imagine resounding to Blaise about his TNC “as a white man.” But when talking about progressive cities, I do say “as a guy from Portland,” or about childrearing “as a guy with two sons,” etc.
I had not meant that a minority needs to self-identify to the group; I meant that acknowledging that you are seeing things from a certain viewpoint in certain contexts is helpful for mutual understanding.
I am recognizing as I write it that what I am saying is coming out more clumsily than I am thinking it, but hopefully you get the gist, yes?Report
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As I said, I didn’t read all the comments so if you already addressed the issue, that is well-enough for me. You did accurately capture me elsewhere so I trust it was just that: a misunderstanding.
I get your point. And it is illuminating. Though I don’t think you intended to, a statement like, “I was referring to those contexts where one recognizes that those things that make them different give them different perspectives, and say so.” Deliberately or not, you are defining the black person/woman/Muslim/whomever-not-in-the-majority-here as he/she who is different. I, BSK, white Christian straight male, need not identify about what makes me who I am (those characteristics among others) because it is the norm: I am not different. It is all those OTHER people who are different and who are best served to identify how their difference is informing their different perspective.
I get what you’re saying and do not mean to imply you did that consciously. But subtle shifts in language can lead to subtle shifts in behavior and culture which can have profound impacts. So, instead of viewing a black guy as offering a different, black perspective from the normative perspective, why not view the black guy and the white guy each offering a perspective that is, at least in part, informed by their racial experience to date? As you said, we need not include all demographic data in all posts and comments. But it would do us all a service if we stepped back and thought, “How does my race/gender/sexual orientation/age/religion/class/etc. inform the perspective I have?” It is easy for those of us in the majority to be unaware of how our majority status impacts our worldview. I don’t have WHITE opinions… I just have opinions; TNC… now THAT guy has BLACK opinions.
This ended up a bit clumsier than I intended, but hopefully you see the point. In the end, I agree that we need not demand everyone include every detail about them in every post, and we certainly should not expect this uniquely of “minorities”. But people ought to think about why they don’t view their opinions as white/male/Christian/blahblahblah, or, if they do, why they don’t acknowledge them as such…Report
I think I do see where you’re coming from. I’m not entirely sure, but I actually think if we’re not actually on the exact same square we’re in spitting distance.Report
Indeed. It is hard to tackle issues relating to a topic as nebulous as “diversity” in a blog post or comment. It involves much deep personal soul searching, cultural analysis, and institutional review. Being willing to have the conversation and ask the questions is the first step and it seems that many here are more than willing.Report
Yeah! I have to admit I was somewhat pleasantly surprised. I was a little afraid when writing this that the threads would get clogged up with a bunch of “That’s PC bulls**t!” comments. So good for us.
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It all comes down to how you define “diversity” and what your ultimate goal is. Pushing for quota’s and good “college brochure” pictures would likely generate (and justify) such responses (though I personally hate the “PC” slur, since I think it is intended to be a conversation ender but, alas…). If instead you are looking to both broaden and deepen the intellectual power of this blog, with an eye towards how diversity, in all its myriad forms, will help accomplish this, I see little reason why anyone would object.
One must also be mindful of the purpose of an organization. This is a blog, primarily intended to educate and inform through honest, engaged dialogue (or, at least that is what I think it is… recently it has at times seemed like an episode of “This Old Boat” :-P). So, “diversity” here means something different than diversity in a school (where I work), which has a very different purpose and mission. So if the goal is compromised under the auspices of “promoting diversity”, than you are not only failing to realize your mission but you are also likely doing a shitty job with diversity. Of course, “promoting diversity” itself can be a goal and an organization’s goals can shift, so there is that.
FWIW, I don’t like the term diversity… at least, not all by itself. I prefer to couple it with “equity” and, depending on the context, “justice”. Equity, as I define it (i.e., NOT equality), certainly seems to be a major theme here and the creation of a forum where all folks feel comfortable expressing their viewpoints would seem to fit. The question is: is that the case now? Do we have limited voices because folks aren’t interested in what is going on here (Are we the nerd table?) or is there something about the culture that says only a certain type of person is welcome here (Are we the white table?), noting that such a culture can be created without any deliberate intent or explicit message to be so exclusive.Report
I have oft maintained that I am a spotted American.
Make of that what you will.Report
Why do all these discussions keep making me think of this movie?Report
I’m bi-racial, but I just don’t talk about it.
Why should I?
I spent a lot of time in my teens and 20’s trying to come to terms with a racial identity.
Finally, I got tired of it, and said, “Screw it.”
I am who I am.
And I eat spinach too.
But I don’t need to be anything other than what I am, and I don’t think it’s really fair to pigeon-hole people on the basis of racial make-up.
So screw it.
There, I said it again.Report