Year 20 Anno Internet
James Joyner and Allison Slater Tate write about parenting as a Generation X’er, mostly in the context of being the last generation raised in the pre-Internet era:
It struck me recently, after one of my quiet carpool rides, that my generation of parents – we of the soon-to-be or recently 40 year old Gen X variety, the former latchkey children of the Cold War and an MTV that actually played videos, former Atari-owners who were raised by the the Cosby Show and John Hughes, graduated high school with the kids from 90210, then lumbered through our 20s with Rachel, Ross, Chandler, Monica, Phoebe, and Joey and flip phones – is perhaps the last to straddle a life experience both with and without the Internet and all its social media marvels. After all, I didn’t even learn to use e-mail until I was 19 and a sophomore in college in 1993, and only for a slightly cringe-worthy reason: a cute boy at another college asked me to e-mail him.
My generation, it seems, had the last of the truly low-tech childhoods, and now we are among the first of the truly high-tech parents.
My formative years were truly right on the cusp of the Internet age, falling just before it. I didn’t have reliable, worthwhile Internet access until I got to Southern Tech. I did have BBSes, of course, which mattered a great deal at the time as I got to experience some of the social aspect of the Internet.
What I didn’t get to experience, though, was everything else. Some of which will actually be kind of hard to convey to Lain and future siblings. Much of the awesomeness of the Internet involves relatively small shifts between things that were already occurring. Before there was online shopping, there was mail order. And Lain will shop.
The truly big thing that the Internet brought is having a world of fact at our fingertips. It’s possible, and true, to talk about how the Internet has allowed us to live in fact-starved cocoons where the reality of politics, science, and religion is more or less choose-your-own-adventure, but scratch just below that surface and ponder how amazing it is to want to know something and be able to pretty immediately look it up the vast majority of the time. Remember what life was like before that? It was like this:
Argument About Capital Of Australia Occurs 10 Feet From Encyclopedia
ORD, NE— Brothers Jeff and Adam Clink spent 20 minutes fiercely debating the capital of Australia while standing 10 feet from the family’s World Book encyclopedia Monday. “You’re high,” Jeff, 18, told Adam. “It’s Sydney.” Adam, who said he is “99.99 percent sure” that Melbourne is the capital, conceded that one city might be the capital of the Australian continent and the other the capital of the nation.
It’s not that you couldn’t get the answers to such things. It’s that you rarely did, if it wasn’t particularly important. One of my favorite phrases is “There’s no reason not to know when you’re holding a smartphone” and I will frequently look up points of uncertainty in the middle of group conversations. Or if someone says something that sounds not quite right, I can look it up and correct later.
And Lain will, of course, take that almost entirely for granted. And it’ll be hard to explain how it used to be that if someone was bullspitting around, you more or less had to either shrug it off or debate it to a lack of conclusion. Like the capital of Australia was a choose-your-own-adventure political disagreement.
Of course, some of the changes are a bit disconcerting. I’d more or less figured out how we were going to handle kids and TV time. I figured this out before it became apparent that ultimately they’d be watching TV on their phones. Now I’m back to square one, without a clue as to what to do. It used to be a simple matter of not allowing them to have a TV in their bedroom, or a video game console in their bedroom or in the house. Now? Well, it’s hard to make it so that they have a world of information at their fingertips and not the ability to watch their favorite TV show.
And at some point, they won’t even need a device because it’ll be in their contact lens. But that’s a problem Lain will have to deal with if she has children.
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Saul and I were born in 1980. We had a computer in our house growing up in the 1980s but it was mainly used by my dad for work and us for games. My dad didn’t get an internet connection until AOL came along even though Saul and I were vaguely aware that something called modems existed and you could use them to do cool things with your computer. We weren’t quite firm on all the details though. Even after we got email, we didn’t use it for much. It was when I was in college and law school that the Internet became a bigger part of my life. By accidentaly discovering usenet and its discussion groups and using napster, I began to spend more time online. As the Internet increased in capabilities so did the amount of time I spent on it. It just became a part of my life.
What I find most puzzling about the generation raised on the Internet is that there wasn’t much of a fight to oppose it. When television and video games came along, there was a lot of concern about kids watching too much tv or playing too many video games rather than being outside playing. The fight was largely unsuccesful but parents seemed to express more concern about tv and video games than they did the internet. With the internet, parents seemed to have largely given up the fight. There was concern about sexting and easier access to pornography but nothing like the past moral panics surrounding comic books, television, and video games. Its not like their was an outbreak of parental sanity, just a lack of willingness to fight for some reason.Report
There was no fight because most of the things that would cause panics were relatively niche or lower quality than their real world analogues. By the time they got to a reasonable level of parity with their non-connected equivalents, it was too late and the internet was entrenched. 256 color nude images are a very poor replacement for magazine glossies and the people using the internet to play Trade Wars or Food Fight were a niche minority. Rightly or wrongly, the internet was largely seen as a productivity and educational enhancement first and the kooky stuff came later.Report
I’m not sure if I really buy this. There has always been moral panics about kids and teens having access to porn. Even in the AOL days of the Internet, it was clear that porn would be a big thing on the Internet. Like with video, porn companies were a very early adapter to the Internet and probably led to many of the rapid advances in Internet technology. Sexting seemed to have taken parents by surprise though.Report
I agree. However, AOL had a walled garden, which made AOL much cleaner than the general internet (and made AOL an acceptable haven for parents). Also, it was so slow to download images on a modem. So the combination of modem access being crappy and walled gardens reigning supreme for home access really limited things. The unfettered fast connections were at universities, where parents can’t see what’s going on.Report
Mo, we must have been using two very different early Internets :^) Granted, I started when it was still restricted to academia and private-sector research labs, but there was every sort of kinky thing you could think of there from the beginning, if for no other reason than that it provided access to the full USENET panoply. All of it available through any public ISP if you knew where to look.Report
Michael Cain, my understanding is that computer scientists started making computer games fairly quickly after they invented a working computer. This was during the time where the idea of home computers was considered a joke than a serious commercial proposal. It doesn’t surprise me that the Internet was developed to its full perverted potential long before it became commercially viable.Report
It started being true very early that porn drove internet technology. At least, if there were other binaries that were uuencoded into ASCII, broken into reasonably sized chunks, and then posted to Usenet as “part M of N” so they could be downloaded and reassembled, they were swamped by dirty pictures.Report
Lee, and as soon as there were networks they shared. At one point, way more than half of all USENET traffic was in alt.sex.binaries. My company blocked it because of the amount of disk space it consumed, even with a 24-hour timeout on articles. Alt.binaries made piracy of all sorts of things quick and easy. The first “internet purchase” I ever made was a used dynamic noise suppression box from a guy at one of the U’s of Wisconsin, negotiated in one of the rec.music groups (people thought I was crazy). An enormous range of stuff, both naughty and nice, was available by anonymous ftp. I vaguely recall a downloadable list of available stuff built by someone using anonymous ftp to somewhat random IP addresses — a precursor to Web crawlers and search engines.Report
@michael-cain I’m not saying it wasn’t out there (trust me, I used BBSes and my home internet access when growing up went to the wide open web rather than being largely limited to a walled garden. But the vast majority of America’s first experience with the internet was through AOL’s walled garden, which was very safe and clean. AOL was the Blockbuster video of internet.Report
Lee,
I was born in 1973, and my family got our first computer sometime in the early 1980s. It was a Commodore 64. We had something like a word processor–called “The Bank Street Writer”–but none of us knew how to use it. I literally (as in, truly really truly) believed that I had to finish the long tutorial before I could even be “allowed” to use it, even though no one would’ve stopped me. I never finished the tutorial.
I didn’t have my first email account until 1997, when I started my MA program and was told I needed to get one to get departmental announcements.Report
It’s actually the opposite, there’s no reason to know when you’re holding a smartphone because you can look it up. Before, there was more value in knowing things in your head. Now you don’t need to memorize anything because you can just look it up on your phone. Which is great in some ways, but it will also make people more susceptible to “knowing” things that aren’t true because of what it says online..
I do miss the hours long bar arguments over trivia instead of the 3 seconds it takes to look it up online.Report
This depends on what level of knowing you’re talking about.
I try to make this point all the time when I talk about online access and what it means for education and information processing.
It’s not necessary for me to memorize all the bits in the IP header. It isn’t necessary for me to remember that the 49th bit is a reserved flag that is always zero.
It may be necessary for me to know conceptually that IP has a checksum built into it for error-correction.
It *is* necessary for me to know that information transfer protocols require error checking.
It *is* important for me to know that information transfer protocols have different sorts of error checking depending upon their implementation constraints and design considerations.
The different levels of knowing there imply different levels of usage. If I’m designing information transfer protocols, I should know that error checking is important and a few different methods of performing that error checking. This applies whether I’m building an RF protocol or I’m trying to design a dead drop system for a human intelligence agent under cover.
If I’m designing a hyper-efficient highly-error resistant supernetwork I can engineer *out* lots of the weight of TCP/IP if I compensate for that using other error correction capabilities suitable for my supernetwork, but I still have to remember how to put all of that weight back in at the endpoints where the regular o’ Internet touches my thing.
If I’m trying to filter out some other information on a mass scale (say, I’m only interested in destination IP addresses), I need to know where that info is located in the IP header.
If I’m just jawing about how information transfers from one thing to another on the internet, I can be informed by all this and use it as an example.
And so on.
The Internet gives you access to reasonably reliable first-order information. It gives you access to all sorts of second-order information, of all different levels of quality. It gives you no knowledge whatsoever about third order information (or, how to assess second-order data sources for accuracy).
As long as you know how to build your own second-order information off of primary sources, you can use the Internet for primary sources and you can eventually get to knowledge.
As long as you know how to assess second-order information sources, you can use the internet for secondary sources and you can get to knowledge one step faster.
If you’re no good at either of those two things, the Internet is for kitten pictures.Report
Just think of all the “Back in my day… AND WE LIKED IT!” jokes we will have at our fingertips.Report
My 5-year-old has started to identify certain things I tell him as being from “the olden days”. But he’s not always clear on which things have somewhat-recently changed (like a delivered newspaper used to be kind of a necessity), versus a long time ago.
For example, I had to explain to him that, no, we DID have shovels, we didn’t just dig in the ground with our hands.Report
“In fact, any time Daddy tells you stories about the olden days, you should think ‘shovel’.”Report
Once upon a time, my son would ask me things like, “did you have television when you were a kid,” followed by, “did you have color television when you were a kid?” Also, “Did you have cars when you were a kid?” My answer was always an exasperated, “How old do you think I am?!”Report
My first teevee was a black and white.Report
Actually, mine was as well (I believe it had been my grandparents’ television in the 60s), but he was asking whether those things had even been invented.Report
I look forward to explaining to Lain that when her mother and I married, I had a TV with no remote and no dial. It has thirteen buttons on the front that you set using a screwdriver.
(I inherited it from my grandmother and the larger TV didn’t fit in the car I moved in.)Report
Mine was three.Report
ASCII porn! And we liked it! The alternating green and white lines created a 3-D effect!Report
The problem was that young men had trouble being attracted to actual women when it turned out their skin wasn’t covered in tildes, forward slashes, and ampersands.Report
Thus proving the scolds right, once again.Report
I think people solved that by simply getting covered in tats.Report
I guess we were early adaptors, 1.5 decades older, but the same story. Our first computer connected to the internet by the time our kids started school. In second grade, my daughter won an award from the Boston Computer Society for an animated movie she made; but the actual video file had to be submitted on a floppy disc, not online. Remember floppies; the big, floppy ones? Where a single Word Perfect file could fill the whole thing up?
My sweetie, the first programmer hired by his office (he wrote them an email system, among other things. It had a 10 minute hold on deliveries, and allowed you to rescind the submit in that time), he was occasionally flummoxed by bio-statisticians in his office who would save their work to their floppies, and then store them on their computers with a magnet, and want him to recover their data.Report
It’s funny how people used to have no idea how vulnerable their data was, whereas today people (criminals) assume that it’s a lot easier to make data unrecoverable than it is.
(Unless you work for the IRS.)Report
Will,
a decent computer virus or two should make your data pretty unrecoverable.Report
I am always amazed when I hear stories about kids under 5 who are already expert Ipaid and Iphone users.Report
My son’s little brother, who is now 6, could play Angry Birds well on a smart phone at 2.Report
Also, for his 4th birthday, I got him an Angry Birds blanket. He then spread it out on the couch, and proceded to “play” Angry Birds on the blanket. So his imaginary play was pretending that a blanket was a touch screen. I found this both amusing and disturbing.Report
I guess that seems more impressive than my Pong marathon at 12.Report
Boy, Lain and I have work to do.Report
@will-truman
No…Keep her on the liberal arts and humanities side 🙂Report
“Ipaid” its a typo and its the truth.Report
@greginak
Don’t all great typos have an element of the unconscious in them?Report
@saul-degraw Indeed Jung talked about the power of the collective typo.Report
And looking at what the internet hath wrought, seasonal reporting would dictate consideration of the Facebook voting buttons (I voted/I’m voting on election day) and the studies they’ve conducted on its import.
http://www.motherjones.com/politics/2014/10/can-voting-facebook-button-improve-voter-turnoutReport
I once worried about too-easy availability of information diminishing the powers of a person growing up surrounded by technology to cultivate memory. I recalled that Plato condemned books for the same reason, but maintained that the ubiquity of handheld devices was different.
I no longer think this way. I’ve seen too many high school students with brains very well-trained to memorize and regurgitate a staggering amount of data. I hesitate to use the word “information,” though, because “information” seems like something qualitatively more complex than “data,” something involving the connection of multiple facts together into a larger conceptual framework.
And that, I’m afraid, is something that a lot of people have always had trouble with, books or no, internet or no. Making those connections, building to successively higher-level concepts, critically thinking about what has been learned — that’s just plain too hard or too distasteful or too time-consuming for most folks, and now I’m of the belief that this is as it ever has been.
All the internet has done is reveal this distasteful truth in a fuller extent.Report
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I agree with this. A lot of people really don’t like abstract thought or anything similar for a variety of reasons. Its exhausting and very if your days are generally relatively stress free, it can take a lot out of you. Especially, if your not used to it. It requires a deeper reading than most people do. You need to really absorb and contemplate what your reading, going over the same passages repeatedly until you reach some sort of understanding. You also need a degree of introversion because abstract thought is best done as a solitary activity. If your a very social person than abstract thought is troubling.Report
“If your a very social person than abstract thought is troubling.”
are you baskin robbins? because this is 31 flavors of nonsense.Report
How very mechanical of you.
What the internet has done is connect people, allowing millions of lives to be saved by motivated small groups.
I just bought glass tumblers from a multinational company being mostly run by children.
The potential for people to get together, and change the world, has never been greater — farmers have better knowledge of markets and crops, the list goes on.Report