Em is on a Diet, Again

Em Carpenter

Em was one of those argumentative children who was sarcastically encouraged to become a lawyer, so she did. She is a proud life-long West Virginian, and, paradoxically, a liberal. In addition to writing about society, politics and culture, she enjoys cooking, podcasts, reading, and pretending to be a runner. She will correct your grammar. You can find her on Twitter.

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  1. Burt Likko
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    More food than exercise, more carb-rich, high-fat tasty foods than vegetable- and protein-rich components to the diet. I’m right there with you, Em. Took a step on the scale earlier this summer and realized I’d exceeded my pandemic weight over the winter.

    So I entered into a bet with a friend — lose 20 lbs. by December, or I have to give $500 to the Republican National Committee.* This has given me the willpower to lose 9 of those pounds already. I REALLY like apple pie, but now I can visualize the candidate when I look at the apple pie and think, “No, I don’t like apple pie quite that much.” And that helps!

    Setting a realistic goal helps, setting a time that is achievable and sustainable helps. Learning new habits helps, but the reinforcement for the willpower, especially at the start, has been a big motivator for me.

    * If one were of a more politically conservative mindset than I, such a person could just as easily have chosen to promise the money to the Democrats were the goal not reached. The power of the commitment ought to readily translate.Report

  2. Jaybird
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    As someone with non-alcoholic fatty liver disease who did South Beach for a while, I’m not ashamed to say that I have been looking idly at GLP-1 receptor agonists.

    What interests me the most is not that it helps people feel full (even if they wouldn’t without it), it’s that it helps people feel *SATED*.

    Like, GLP-1 receptor agonists help with gambling addiction.

    You catch the dragon and he stays caught.

    One of my dear friends has started taking it. I’m wondering… well, there’s a lot of stuff I’m wondering. We’ll see how it goes over the next year or so.Report

    • InMD in reply to Jaybird
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      My wife started a GLP 1 to help get off the pregnancy weight just under a year ago and it’s been a big success for her, no significant side effects. Assuming long term use doesn’t cause cancer or something my bet is that the big risk will be injuries due to deterioration of muscle mass. Or at least that’s my observation. Shit is great for losing weight but it’s indiscriminate. Can’t skip leg day.

      Randomly and on this topic I ran into a guy I hadn’t seen in a couple years last weekend. He had lost so much weight I didn’t recognize him. Said he did it with intermittent fasting. Reportedly it cured his diabetes, to the point that is possible.Report

    • Burt Likko in reply to Jaybird
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      My workout buddy got diagnosed as pre-diabetic and got some GLP-1 receptor agonists, at low doses. She’s dropped ten pounds in ten weeks, says she feels great. Taught me kettlebells this morning and… um… well that’s quite an exercise and I need to work on my form.

      All of which is to say, the chems aren’t going to be the whole answer no matter what, but my friend thinks they help a lot on the diet part, and let’s face it, that’s the big part.Report

      • Jaybird in reply to Burt Likko
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        It *SOUNDS* too good to be true. Like, if this stuff was introduced at the beginning of a television show, you’d know that by episode 3, people would start having stuff fall off.Report

        • Em Carpenter in reply to Jaybird
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          I’m not opposed to the meds at all and think they could be lifesaving for some. But I don’t think you can just keep taking them forever and as far as I know, your appetite and cravings just come back. So like every other method, you have to keep up the discipline or you’re right back where you started in no time.
          (Plus, I fear long term side effects and also don’t like shots.)Report

  3. KenB
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    This is all extremely relatable. My wife and I talk about that “switch” all the time, although I’ve come to think of it more like the timer knob you turn for the hot tub to get the jets going — the very act of turning it on starts the countdown for it to be off.

    WW in the mid 2000s was my first experience with actually following a diet plan for more than a day or two, and I had a very similar reaction — the budgeting concept was amazing, and I thought I had cracked the code and was on my way to decades of a healthy weight and a healthy relationship to food; but a year later I was already back on the upswing, and a couple years after that I was above where I had even started.

    My wife and I both started Noom about a year ago — she’s still going strong, but it stopped working for me (or I guess more like I stopped working with it) by the beginning of this year, and I’ve gained back a third of what I lost already. The tool is good for supporting the journey you’re ready to go on, but alas it doesn’t control the switch for you.Report

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