Weekend Plans Post: Thinking About What I’ll Miss
I have slowly and surely moved from “work from home 5 days a week!” to “go into work one day a week” and now I’m in “go to work two days a week” territory.
If everything goes well, fingers crossed, knock wood, we’ll be in a place where we have reached “go into work 4 days a week (and Friday is WFH for everybody, indefinitely)” by the end of the summer.
While there are a ton of things that I will not only say “Goodbye!” but “GOOD RIDDANCE!” to, there are a handful of things that are really, really, really nice about working from home:
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- I make a real breakfast. Like, a breakfast sandwich. A sandwich like this one but one with an everything bagel and jalapeƱo cream cheese and thick pepper bacon.
- Eating breakfast at leisure as I check email and skype messages and seeing how many meetings I’ve got (oh good! only 3!) and enjoying the food as it is still hot.
- Making breakfast for Maribou when she gets up (about an hour or so after I do). We bought a couple boxes of cereal at the beginning of all this, thinking we’d need to eat it. Thanks to being able to get bread and eggs and bacon, we have only gone through one box, maybe. That was more due to laziness than necessity.
- Baked Potatoes for lunch every Friday. I get up on Friday, make my own breakfast, wash two big bakers, wrap them up in foil still dripping wet, then put all the fixings (butter, shredded cheese blend, sour cream, chives, and bacon, bacon, bacon) on them for lunch. You’d pay $4.99 at Outback for this potato! ($4.49 plus an extra fifty cents for the extra bacon.)
- Not commuting. It takes me about a half hour to drive to work (and longer if there is traffic congestion or an accident or something). My day can start leisurely and it can end pretty abruptly when the whistle blows on Friday. Get up, run upstairs, check on Maribou, then go for a jog, and be in the shower in the time it used to take me to drive home.
- Cat breaks.
Now I know that I am very lucky to be in a place where there are things I’m going to miss about working from home (as opposed to being terrified about stuff related to not working). I hope that we can all get to a place, soon, where everybody who wants to have a job can find one and everybody who wants to hire someone has to offer better pay, benefits, and bagels on Monday.
I can’t wait to get back to a place where that’s where we all are.
I can’t wait to go back to work and see my co-workers. I can’t wait to argue about daily trivia with them and tell them about what it was like to grow up in the 80’s after they explain to me some crazy hybrid vaping/fidget spinner trick that they saw some K-Pop kids do on TikTok. (“We smoked cigarettes! At the mall!”) I can’t wait to go out to work and think something like “oh, I need a particular ingredient” and just pick it up rather than set up a delivery window. I can’t wait until my Saturday Night Gaming Group can all sit in the same room together again and share snackfood while we talk about longbow damage. I miss going to my climbing gym.
The things I’m going to get back from a life returning to something like “back to normal” are SOOOOO much better than this weird little new normal that showed up with the pandemic.
Like, this weekend, I’m not going to do laundry. We did it on Tuesday. We’ve got a gaming group, but it’s online. (We’re going to try out Cosmic Encounters.) I’m going to play games in the basement… but doing it because there aren’t really that many other options is different than when you’re doing it because you’re avoiding hundreds of other options. It’ll be nice to play games again because I’m avoiding doing real stuff.
In the meantime, though… that’s the plan.
So… what’s on your docket?
(Featured image is Tiger, zonked out.)
I JUST said on Twitter I was planning my weekly trip to the grocery for supplies, and figuratively pouring one out for the before-times, when a Pruett’s run was something I did a couple times a week on my way home from work and I never thought much of it.
One thing: I write grocery lists now, which I never did before, because the idea of missing that ONE thing is no longer a “grumble and go back out,” it’s more of a “meh, the risk of exposure for one thing isn’t worth it” and you learn to live without.
Especially now, when yesterday my state had the highest R0 in the nation.
So my energy today will be expended on getting food for the coming week. If I have remaining energy after that I might do some continuing-ed reading.
Though I also have to call a florist today; one of the women in my women’s group at church lost her husband earlier this week, apparently they are doing services for him, and they are to be Monday, and I guess I am now the designated person to arrange for the floral arrangement. So I have to call a florist in town and I have no idea what to ask for and….yeah, that’s another thing that will eat some emotional energy for me.
One thing this thing has really taught me is that I don’t like uncertainty, like, I dislike it a LOT, and also that a lot of the operating in this is just DEALING with uncertainty.
Next month I am going to tentatively restart research, in the hopes that we’re not chased off campus again before I complete this project.
The last week of this month I’m scheduled to help deliver Meals on Wheels and that’s another source of anxiety; what do we need to do to keep the (often ill and always elderly) recipients safe when we have to go to different houses and in some place go into the house to drop off the food?Report
#1 Son is bringing home his (first) girlfriend for dinner; we know he’s a bit nervous… but ironically it’s not us (the parents) he’s worried about, but his older sister – their relationship is close and complicated as they transition into adults (the siblings, that is). It will all be fine, but the novelty of the entire situation and new family dynamics are just making people overthink everything.
On the plus side, it’s a Solemnity today, so we can serve meat… will sous vide some flank steak and quickly finish it on the grill… honestly the sous vide a pure culinary genius for lots of temp sensitive cuts (and seafood… oh my gosh, seafood) plus a godsend for dinner party timing – everything is at exact temp at the same time and can be finished a’la minute.
Otherwise, more pasture maintenance and the trails in the woods need beating back. Virginia is lovely but holy shit can we grow a mess o’ weeds right quick.Report
Oh, man! I went to the grocery store yesterday just to get some usual Friday fare. I guess I’ll slip it into the menu over the next few days.Report
or just punch up regular Friday with a steak!Report
I just had a hankering the other day for some London broil. Now that hankering has grown.
Also, I was unaware that meatless Fridays were still a thing, other than as a personal preference. Is it still doctrinal somewhere?Report
Friday is still a day of penance. The method chosen is optional. As a practical matter, it means that most people don’t do anything. A few dinosaurs like us still keep it up, and anything that allows us to distinguish between days is welcome during the lockdown.Report
Off-topic, but I need to complain somewhere. I saw yesterday’s USA Today headline, which was something like “Nearly Half the Country Shows Leaps in New Cases”. If you haven’t seen the data recently, it looks like this:
https://www.google.com/search?ei=3tLsXovHHa3CytMPtMOQ8Ag&q=new+coronavirus+cases+usa&oq=new+coronavirus+cases+usa&gs_lcp=CgZwc3ktYWIQAzIFCAAQsQMyBwgAELEDEAoyBAgAEAoyBAgAEAo6BAgAEEc6AggAOgUIABCDAVDtSFjeVGCqWWgAcAF4AIABtQGIAYIFkgEDMi4zmAEAoAEBqgEHZ3dzLXdpeg&sclient=psy-ab&ved=0ahUKEwiLru2kko7qAhUtoXIEHbQhBI4Q4dUDCAw&uact=5
Looking at the underlying data, only five states (Arizona, Arkansas, Florida, Oklahoma, Texas) can be said to be “leaping”. Oregon had a spike and the Carolinas are dangerously but gradually increasing. So, how do you get to almost half leaping? First off, by ignoring the increases in testing. But also by calling every increase a leap. But by that definition, any collection of random walks will show nearly half – or more than half! – of the paths leaping every day.
Now, I’m not saying that the spread of a virus follows a random walk. It approximates an exponential spread in a small area, but if you do your darnedest it’ll approximate a random walk at an aggregate level. Sometimes an outbreak will be bad enough that it’ll show up at a higher level as exponential growth, and I’m of course hoping that no state experiences that. But it’s just – that USA Today headline is so much more ignorant than I would have expected, and I thought I had no faith in them at all. There’s no way a person could be expected to read the headline and picture the reality it was trying to describe.Report
CNN similarly had one about how “21 states see surge!” The size of the surge varied dramatically. It also buried way deep down that 21 other states were seeing big declines. Why was only one of those data sets mentioned in the headline?Report
“Alarming Trends Up, Alarming Trends Down Net to Alarming Gradual Decline”Report
“Alarming Headlines Trending Up”
“Nuanced Subheadlines Remain Static”Report
Beautiful.Report
Tiger looks a bit like my Iggy. Admittedly, a popular breed, but if you’d like to see pictures of my cat, I can totally show you pictures of my cat!Report
I would always like to see pictures of cats.Report
(pounds rhythmically on table)
OPEN CAT THREAD
OPEN CAT THREAD
OPEN CAT THREAD
(and dogs, too….let’s be equal opportunity)
(I do not have a cat. It was a big big deal last night at the “socially distanced outdoors” meeting I was at when the meeting-host’s neighbor’s cat sauntered over and deigned to let us pet her)Report