I can't speak for "young men", so this comment from "an old guy" who’s been married and divorced.
I've dated women who were so full of drama the juice was not worth the squeeze. I have listened to them complain about their kids and their exes and all their problems, yet they don't care about my problems. They just want to complain to someone. I have no interest in listening to someone complain all the time. I've met women who were LONG past safely having children but wanted to do it anyway, have surrogacy, etc. but they couldn't afford to do it alone--others did it alone and wondered why they couldn't find a guy to marry. Sorry, I'll pass on the instant family. What part of "doesn't have kids and doesn't want them" in my profile was unclear? I was on a “once in a lifetime vacation” with my then girlfriend, whose first though every morning and her last thought every night, was to post pictures of our trip on Facebook, and read the comments the next morning. Meanwhile I’m sitting outside watching zebras and giraffes wander by while I drink my coffee.
Most women I've met have no understanding of real "hardship". Example: I dated women who've had REAL problems. She was married and her husband went back to the old country and abandoned her here. She went back to get a divorce. If anyone found out she was "committing adultery" dating me while married, she'd would have been stoned to death. I've personally sat at the dinner table listening to two women talk about their and their family's experiences in 1) Russia between the communist revolution to WW2 and 2) the Iranian revolution.
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I can't speak for "young men", so this comment from "an old guy" who’s been married and divorced.
I've dated women who were so full of drama the juice was not worth the squeeze. I have listened to them complain about their kids and their exes and all their problems, yet they don't care about my problems. They just want to complain to someone. I have no interest in listening to someone complain all the time. I've met women who were LONG past safely having children but wanted to do it anyway, have surrogacy, etc. but they couldn't afford to do it alone--others did it alone and wondered why they couldn't find a guy to marry. Sorry, I'll pass on the instant family. What part of "doesn't have kids and doesn't want them" in my profile was unclear? I was on a “once in a lifetime vacation” with my then girlfriend, whose first though every morning and her last thought every night, was to post pictures of our trip on Facebook, and read the comments the next morning. Meanwhile I’m sitting outside watching zebras and giraffes wander by while I drink my coffee.
Most women I've met have no understanding of real "hardship". Example: I dated women who've had REAL problems. She was married and her husband went back to the old country and abandoned her here. She went back to get a divorce. If anyone found out she was "committing adultery" dating me while married, she'd would have been stoned to death. I've personally sat at the dinner table listening to two women talk about their and their family's experiences in 1) Russia between the communist revolution to WW2 and 2) the Iranian revolution.