Weekend Plans Post: Getting in bar fights with Icelanders over whether Kiss is a better band than Sigur Rós
The strangest thing about being away is that “nothing” becomes an option. By sitting down you are not necessarily procrastinating. There isn’t the thought that maybe you could empty out the vacuum or do a load of clothes or write an essay. Being away means that there is time where you are not obliged.
Spanish has a phrase for sitting and doing nothing called “Pensando en la inmortalidad del cangrejo” or “Thinking about the immortality of the crab“. It’s a way to point out that you weren’t just idle, sitting there. You were thinking about important things.
Anthropology studies of various isolated tribes showed that a good portion of time was spent just doing nothing. Not, you know, sitting with friends and shooting the bull. Not cleaning or maintaining tools or some other dull repetitive task. Sitting there. Doing nothing.
I think that “doing nothing” has become severely devalued in the modern era. To the point where doing nothing isn’t merely doing nothing. It’s deliberately *NOT* doing something else. You could be cleaning. You could be making chicken stock! You could be reading a book! You could be installing Red Hat on your old computer and turning it into a print/media server for the household!
This is why being away gives a great opportunity to sit and do nothing. Look at the rain. Look at the fields. Look at the faraway. What else would you be doing?
(Granted, a hot spring makes this a *LOT* easier.)
So… what’s on your docket?
(Featured image is “Blue Crab, Parque Tayrona” by szeke and is marked with CC BY-NC-SA 2.0.)
I see your point, but I do not call what you are describing “doing nothing”. If what you are doing is watching things, that is not nothing. It is devalued culturally, but still quite interesting and valuable. It is a close relative of meditation. You empty out your things and just experience the world: What is happening around you. What is that crab doing? How many flies are there on the wall?
This is a supremely soothing thing to do. For me, anyway.Report
This feels to me like coming up with another way to say “I’m not idle!”
It’s still saying “No, this is important.”
I want to be able to just sit there like a blob and do something useless for an hour or so. Like, and not have to come up with a justification.Report
And I would like you to be able to do it, and yet not be judgemental about “this is useless”.Report
But saying that it is useless is only judgmental if things ought to have a use…
(Not that I think you should agree with him about the activity’s usefulness. Just. It’s not necessarily bad to be purposeless, useless, etc.)Report
“I think that “doing nothing” has become severely devalued in the modern era.”
Abso-fishing-lutely.Report
Before I can consider doing “nothing” (which I have never been good at), I need to clean house this weekend, and mow the lawn, and prepare for some travel (visiting my mom) the middle of next week.
Classes are done. I didn’t sign up for graduation (they used to require us to go, now we need to sign up) on the grounds that going to see my mom (in her 80s) less than a week after that, it’s no time to risk a super spreader event (several hours inside a basketball arena with several thousand people from all over and few people masked – probably less likely to spread than in a more enclosed space, but still). I used to like going to graduation and I suppose I will again someday, but right now it doesn’t feel right for me.Report
I find doing nothing impossible. It is both a gift and a curse. It has been passed to my son who knows no state of being between human impression of hummingbird and exhausted oblivion. I see his condition as something to aspire to and there is no better way to squeeze every last drop out of life.
As for me I am going to see a grossly under appreciated metal band this evening hailing from the hills of West Virginia. It will be my second concert since covid and I am excited, even if I will be an old greybeard sipping my beer in the back. The rest of the weekend looks like it will be a wash out. Hopefully it won’t ruin the mother’s day visits and related festivities on Sunday.Report
Ooooh do you care to drop the name of the band? I’ve been hunting up metal music to add to my liberry lately.Report
Byzantine
The post 2009-2015 hiatus iteration fully embraces the progressive elements so if that’s your thing go later. If the rawer, thrashier sound is your thing go earlier. Impossible to go wrong though IMO.Report
Excellent. Thank you!Report
Wow, apparently add seeing a historic upset at the Kentucky Derby to the itinerary. That was wild. Maybe I’ll place a bet for Preakness.Report